Embrace self-determination – Why it’s time to put your wishes first again

Are you the most important person in your life?

When was the last time you consciously thought about yourself? About your real desires, about what is really important to you?

Or are you more familiar with this feeling: you function in everyday life, give a lot for others and lose what really defines you - your dreams, your inner strength and your path.

Why you often put yourself at the back of the queue

Many of my clients come to me with a similar story: they are strong, committed and always there for others. But if they are honest with themselves, they realise that their own needs have long since lost their spot.

Maybe that applies to you too?

• You take care of your family, job and everyday life, but your wishes fall by the wayside.
• You often make decisions from the outside - in line with expectations and ‘what you just do’.
• You feel restless but don't know exactly what you're really missing.

The problem with this is that in the long run it costs you an enormous amount of energy. You feel tired, empty or driven instead of free and alive.

And it doesn't have to stay that way!

Back to yourself - the first step

The path to more self-determination always begins with a simple, powerful step: coming back to yourself.

It's not about changing everything immediately or radically transforming yourself. It's about reconnecting with yourself and feeling what you really want. What is calling for your attention. And what you can let go of to create more space for your dream life.

I support you in this with the morphic field - a conscious connection to what is working beneath the surface. To the information that is stored in you and your energy field and that shows you why you are where you are right now - and, above all, how you can move forward.

How do you find out what you really want?

Many people have forgotten to ask themselves this important question. Yet it is the linchpin for a fulfilled life: ‘The question of all questions: How do I want it to be?’

Here are three effective steps to reconnect with your true desires:

1. Take space for yourself: consciously allow yourself quiet moments without distractions. Go out into nature, write in your diary or simply sit down with a cup of tea. Without a to-do list, just with yourself. And listen to what comes.
2. Listen to the first answers: When you ask yourself ‘How do I want it to be?’, answers such as ‘less stress’ or ‘more time’ often come first. Go deeper: What does this mean for you in concrete terms? What do you want to feel and experience? What can make spot for something new in your life?
3. Feel it in your body: Your answers must not only ‘sound good’, but also feel good. Observe where you feel lightness or joy when you think about your vision. This is how you find your authentic path.

This reflection often brings a whole new clarity - and this is exactly where my work with the morphic field comes in. We bring to light from the depths what has long been waiting to be lived within you.

Focus instead of frustration - why clarity changes everything

When you have clarity about where your priorities lie and what you really want, everything changes. Suddenly you no longer have to ‘fight’ or ‘function’, but can make conscious decisions.

Clarity brings focus. Focus brings energy.

And it is precisely this energy that you need to take your next steps towards self-determination. Whether it's about your professional vision, your personal boundaries or your overall attitude to life - clarity is the key.

The morphic field as a compass for your path

Are you wondering how exactly the morphic field supports you in this?

In my sessions, we tap into this field together - we take a quick look at what is behind your current challenges. Which beliefs are still running in the background and robbing you of energy.

And head straight to the solution level!

Because the crucial thing is: we untie these knots and clear the way for new impulses.

The field shows us the answers that you carry within you - and my solution-orientated mentoring helps you to bring them into your everyday life. No vague advice, but individual, realisable steps for you and your life.

Your needs as a source of strength

An important point here is that your needs are not a ‘minor matter’, but the basis for a fulfilled life. If you permanently lose your energy on the outside, you will lack it on the inside.

That's why we also look at what gives you more energy for yourself:

• What energises you?
• Where do you say yes too often, even though you actually feel no?
• What desires do you perhaps have buried deep inside you?

We bring all these questions and the answers into your consciousness. So that you no longer work against yourself, but with yourself.

Out of adaptation, into self-determination

Living a self-determined life does not mean being selfish. It means consciously taking your spot in life. It means making decisions based on your inner truth rather than out of a sense of duty or fear.

And this is exactly what I experience time and again with my clients: As soon as they take themselves seriously again and gain clarity about their priorities, their entire attitude to life changes. More inner peace, more focus and more joy in their own path.

You see: you are more important than you think

You can put your wishes first again. You can decide to go your own way - clear, powerful and self-determined.

And if you would like support in doing so, I will be happy to be by your side. Let's look together at what is really possible for you.

I look forward to seeing you! ♥️

What's your next step towards more self-determination?
Let me know in the comments!